{"id":780,"date":"2026-09-28T18:46:35","date_gmt":"2026-09-28T13:16:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifecareayurveda.com\/kamsutra\/?p=780"},"modified":"2026-09-28T18:46:35","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T13:16:35","slug":"not-in-the-mood-one-partner-ready-other-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifecareayurveda.com\/kamsutra\/not-in-the-mood-one-partner-ready-other-not\/","title":{"rendered":"Not in the Mood: When One Partner Is Ready and the Other Is Not \u2014 How to Handle It?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"lca-cross-lang-links\" style=\"background: #f5f5f5; border-left: 4px solid #2e7d32; padding: 12px 16px; margin: 0 0 20px 0; font-size: 0.95em; line-height: 1.6;\">\ud83c\udf10 <strong>Read this article in other languages:<\/strong><br \/>\n\u0a97\u0ac1\u0a9c\u0ab0\u0abe\u0aa4\u0ac0: <a href=\"https:\/\/lifecareayurveda.com\/kamsutra\/mood-na-hovu-ek-sathi-tayar-bijo-nahi\/\">\u0aae\u0ac2\u0aa1 \u0aa8 \u0ab9\u0acb\u0ab5\u0acb: \u0a9c\u0acd\u0aaf\u0abe\u0ab0\u0ac7 \u0a8f\u0a95 \u0ab8\u0abe\u0aa5\u0ac0 \u0aa4\u0ac8\u0aaf\u0abe\u0ab0 \u0ab9\u0acb\u0aaf \u0a85\u0aa8\u0ac7 \u0aac\u0ac0\u0a9c\u0acb \u0aa8\u0ab9\u0ac0\u0a82 \u2014 \u0a95\u0ac7\u0ab5\u0ac0 \u0ab0\u0ac0\u0aa4\u0ac7 \u0ab9\u0ac7\u0aa8\u0acd\u0aa1\u0ab2 \u0a95\u0ab0\u0ab5\u0ac1\u0a82?<\/a><br \/>\n\u0939\u093f\u0902\u0926\u0940: <a href=\"https:\/\/lifecareayurveda.com\/kamsutra\/mood-na-hona-ek-saathi-taiyar-doosra-nahi\/\">\u092e\u0942\u0921 \u0928 \u0939\u094b\u0928\u093e: \u091c\u092c \u090f\u0915 \u0938\u093e\u0925\u0940 \u0924\u0948\u092f\u093e\u0930 \u0939\u094b \u0914\u0930 \u0926\u0942\u0938\u0930\u093e \u0928\u0939\u0940\u0902 \u2014 \u0907\u0938\u0947 \u0915\u0948\u0938\u0947 \u0938\u0902\u092d\u093e\u0932\u0947\u0902?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In married life, it is not necessary for both partners to have the same level of sexual desire at the same time. Sometimes one partner may feel ready for intimacy while the other simply does not feel in the mood. This can lead to feelings of rejection, sadness, anger, or misunderstanding\u2014but with healthy communication and mutual respect, the situation can be handled in a much healthier way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Not being in the mood does not necessarily mean that there is no love in the relationship or that a person is no longer attracted to their partner. Sexual desire can change according to stress, fatigue, sleep, hormonal changes, relationship circumstances, and a person&#8217;s emotional state.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1drv.ms\/i\/c\/0AD4B643D15EF63C\/IQTkvbu1te-GQq11Juyl1KTKARGq7LTOeSwusXQDU8z0q8Y\" alt=\"Indian married couple discussing different levels of sexual desire and emotional readiness in a respectful relationship.\" \/><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>\ud83d\udccc Key Takeaways<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Both partners do not have to experience the same level of sexual desire all the time.<\/li>\n<li>Instead of taking \u201cnot now\u201d as personal rejection, it is more helpful to understand what may be happening with the partner.<\/li>\n<li>Consent, respect, and open communication are important foundations of a healthy intimate relationship.<\/li>\n<li>If low sexual desire persists, affects the relationship, or occurs along with other physical or emotional symptoms, consulting a Sexologist or appropriate healthcare professional may be helpful.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>What Does \u201cNot in the Mood\u201d Mean?<\/h2>\n<p>Sexual desire or <strong>libido<\/strong> refers to a person&#8217;s interest or desire for sexual intimacy. It is not necessarily constant. Even in the same person, sexual desire may change from one day to another depending on circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>A person may be physically healthy but mentally not feel ready for sexual intimacy. Similarly, someone may have sexual desire but may not want to proceed because of fatigue, physical discomfort, emotional stress, or relationship concerns.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, <strong>when one partner is ready and the other is not, the more useful question is not \u201cWho is right or wrong?\u201d but \u201cWhat are both partners feeling at this moment?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>What Should You Do When One Partner Is Ready and the Other Is Not?<\/h2>\n<h3>1. Do Not Immediately Take \u201cNo\u201d as Personal Rejection<\/h3>\n<p>If your partner says, \u201cI am not in the mood today,\u201d it does not necessarily mean, \u201cI do not like you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fatigue, work-related stress, lack of sleep, household responsibilities, physical discomfort, or emotional pressure can all affect sexual desire.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Listen Instead of Applying Pressure<\/h3>\n<p>Asking \u201cWhy not?\u201d is not necessarily wrong, but the way the question is asked matters.<\/p>\n<p>For example:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s okay. Is something stressing you today?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A gentle approach like this can make it easier for a partner to express what they are actually feeling.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Understand the Difference Between \u201cNot Now\u201d and \u201cNever\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes a partner simply does not feel in the mood at that particular time. It does not automatically mean there is a permanent problem.<\/p>\n<p>If the relationship is generally healthy and this happens occasionally, it may be more appropriate to view it as part of individual circumstances rather than immediately treating it as a major relationship problem.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Intimacy Does Not Always Have to Mean Sexual Activity<\/h3>\n<p>When either partner is not ready for sexual intimacy, couples can still spend meaningful time together.<\/p>\n<p>Talking, sitting together, holding hands, expressing affection, or simply relaxing together can help maintain emotional closeness.<\/p>\n<p>However, <strong>consent and comfort remain important even with non-sexual physical affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Symptoms: When Can It Become a Problem?<\/h2>\n<p>Occasionally not being in the mood can be completely normal. However, it may be worth exploring the underlying causes when:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sexual desire remains noticeably low for a long period.<\/li>\n<li>There is a persistent change compared with the person&#8217;s previous level of desire.<\/li>\n<li>There is ongoing discomfort around sexual intimacy.<\/li>\n<li>Repeated misunderstandings or conflict develop in the relationship.<\/li>\n<li>Physical pain or other sexual-health symptoms are present.<\/li>\n<li>Sleep, fatigue, or daily functioning changes significantly.<\/li>\n<li>A noticeable change in libido begins after starting a medication.<\/li>\n<li>The situation causes significant distress for either partner or the relationship.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Causes of Not Being in the Mood<\/h2>\n<h3>Modern Causes<\/h3>\n<p>According to modern medical understanding, changes in sexual desire may be associated with several factors, including:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Stress<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Anxiety<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Sleep deprivation<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationship conflict<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Hormonal changes<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatigue<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Chronic medical conditions<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Certain medications<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Depressive symptoms<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Sexual pain<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Body-image concerns<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Performance pressure<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These factors do not affect everyone in the same way.<\/p>\n<p>When reduced libido persists, an appropriate assessment may help identify whether medical, psychological, lifestyle, or relationship-related factors are contributing to the concern.<\/p>\n<h3>Ayurvedic Causes<\/h3>\n<p>Ayurveda views the body and mind as closely connected. <strong>Vata Dosha<\/strong> refers to qualities associated with movement and nervous-system activity, <strong>Pitta Dosha<\/strong> is associated with transformation and heat, while <strong>Kapha Dosha<\/strong> is associated with stability, nourishment, and protection.<\/p>\n<p>From an Ayurvedic perspective, excessive worry, irregular routines, inadequate sleep, unsuitable dietary habits, and physical or mental fatigue may be considered in understanding an individual&#8217;s overall state.<\/p>\n<p>This Ayurvedic interpretation should not be treated as a modern medical diagnosis. Individual assessment is important before deciding on any Ayurvedic treatment approach.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Ayurvedic Understanding<\/h2>\n<p>Ayurveda does not look at sexual wellbeing only through the function of one body part. It considers the person&#8217;s overall physical condition, mental state, nutrition, lifestyle, and vitality.<\/p>\n<h3>Dhatu \u2014 Tissues Supporting Body Nutrition<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Shukra Dhatu<\/strong> is described in Ayurveda in relation to reproductive and sexual health. However, sexual desire should not be attributed only to Shukra Dhatu. Overall nourishment, physical wellbeing, and mental state also matter.<\/p>\n<h3>Agni \u2014 Digestive and Metabolic Strength<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Agni<\/strong> is an Ayurvedic concept used to describe the body&#8217;s digestive and transformative processes. Irregular meals, excessively heavy food, and an unsuitable routine may affect digestion and overall wellbeing.<\/p>\n<h3>Srotas \u2014 Channels of the Body<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Srotas<\/strong> refers to the channels or pathways described in Ayurveda in relation to the movement and functioning of various substances and processes in the body.<\/p>\n<p>An Ayurvedic assessment considers the individual as a whole rather than focusing on only one symptom.<\/p>\n<h3>Manas \u2014 The Mind<\/h3>\n<p>The mental state can influence how a person experiences intimacy and sexual desire. Worry, mental pressure, excessive thinking, and emotional difficulties may affect sexual wellbeing in some people.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Psychological Understanding<\/h2>\n<p>Sexual desire can be influenced by the mind as much as by the body.<\/p>\n<p>Stress, anxiety, and emotional factors may affect sexual symptoms in some people. Continuous work pressure, inadequate sleep, relationship disagreements, negative thoughts about oneself or one&#8217;s body, or the belief that one \u201cmust always be ready\u201d can all contribute to changes in sexual desire.<\/p>\n<p>When one partner repeatedly says, \u201cI am not in the mood,\u201d the other partner may begin to feel personally rejected. This can lead to anger or pressure, which may make the other partner feel even less comfortable with intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>This can create a <strong>relationship cycle<\/strong> in which pressure and misunderstanding reinforce one another.<\/p>\n<p>In such circumstances, calm communication is generally more constructive than blame.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Treatment and Management<\/h2>\n<p>Management of low or fluctuating sexual desire should depend on the possible underlying causes.<\/p>\n<p>It can be useful to understand:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>When did the concern begin?<\/li>\n<li>Does it occur in particular situations?<\/li>\n<li>How are sleep and stress levels?<\/li>\n<li>Is there any medical condition or medication involved?<\/li>\n<li>Is there ongoing relationship stress?<\/li>\n<li>Are there any physical or sexual-health symptoms?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The answers can help determine an appropriate approach.<\/p>\n<p>If the concern is persistent or causes significant distress, assessment by a Sexologist or another appropriate healthcare professional may be useful.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Medicines<\/h2>\n<p>There is no single medicine that is appropriate for every person experiencing low or changing sexual desire.<\/p>\n<p>In Ayurveda, the approach may consider <strong>Prakriti, Dosha status, Agni, Dhatu, lifestyle, and overall health<\/strong> before selecting medicines or therapies.<\/p>\n<p>For example, <strong>Ashwagandha<\/strong> is traditionally used in Ayurveda in various contexts related to stress and general vitality. However, it should not automatically be considered necessary or appropriate for everyone experiencing low libido.<\/p>\n<p>Ayurvedic medicines, particularly when a person is already taking allopathic medicines, should be used under the guidance of a qualified practitioner because individual suitability and possible drug interactions need to be considered.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Diet<\/h2>\n<p>There is no single \u201cmagic food\u201d required for sexual wellbeing. A balanced, nutritious diet is more important.<\/p>\n<h3>Helpful Dietary Habits<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Fresh and balanced meals<\/li>\n<li>Adequate protein<\/li>\n<li>Lentils and legumes<\/li>\n<li>Vegetables and fruits<\/li>\n<li>Suitable nuts and seeds<\/li>\n<li>Adequate hydration<\/li>\n<li>Regular meal timing<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Consider Limiting<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Excessively processed foods<\/li>\n<li>Very heavy or irregular meals<\/li>\n<li>Excessive alcohol, if consumed<\/li>\n<li>An irregular lifestyle associated with chronic sleep deprivation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Diet should be individualized according to overall health, digestive tolerance, medical conditions, and nutritional needs.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Lifestyle<\/h2>\n<p>Some simple lifestyle measures may support sexual wellbeing:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Maintain regular and adequate sleep.<\/li>\n<li>Include regular physical activity.<\/li>\n<li>Practice relaxation or stress-management techniques.<\/li>\n<li>Maintain a healthier balance between work and personal life.<\/li>\n<li>Communicate openly with your partner.<\/li>\n<li>Respect each other&#8217;s personal boundaries.<\/li>\n<li>Do not ignore a persistent concern; seek appropriate professional guidance when needed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Panchakarma<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Panchakarma<\/strong> refers to a group of Ayurvedic therapeutic procedures used in selected clinical situations.<\/p>\n<p>Not everyone experiencing low mood or reduced sexual desire requires Panchakarma. Its suitability should be considered only after evaluating the person&#8217;s Prakriti, Dosha status, age, health condition, strength, and other relevant medical factors.<\/p>\n<p>Panchakarma should therefore not be presented as a universally required treatment for sexual-health concerns.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Yoga<\/h2>\n<h3>Bhujangasana \u2014 Cobra Pose<\/h3>\n<p>Bhujangasana may support general physical activity and flexibility when suitable for the individual.<\/p>\n<h3>Anulom Vilom \u2014 Alternate Nostril Breathing<\/h3>\n<p>This breathing practice may be used as part of relaxation and breathing awareness.<\/p>\n<h3>Dhyana \u2014 Meditation<\/h3>\n<p>Regular relaxation and mindfulness practices may help some people manage stress and improve awareness of their emotional state.<\/p>\n<p>Yoga and breathing practices should be adapted according to individual physical ability and medical conditions.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>\u2695\ufe0f Contraindications \/ Who Should Take Extra Care?<\/h2>\n<p>If a person has heart disease, uncontrolled blood-pressure problems, diabetes, or another significant medical condition, they should consult an appropriate healthcare professional before beginning intensive exercise, Panchakarma, or herbal medicines.<\/p>\n<p>If a person takes allopathic medicines, they should inform their Ayurvedic practitioner before starting herbal medicines or supplements so that possible drug interactions can be considered.<\/p>\n<p>A sudden major change in libido, persistent physical pain, other medical symptoms, or significant emotional distress should not be managed only through self-treatment.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Do\u2019s &amp; Don\u2019ts<\/h2>\n<h3>Do\u2019s<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Listen carefully to your partner.<\/li>\n<li>Respect \u201cnot now.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Talk about intimacy at a calm and appropriate time.<\/li>\n<li>Pay attention to sleep and stress.<\/li>\n<li>Seek professional advice if the concern persists.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Don\u2019ts<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Do not pressure your partner.<\/li>\n<li>Do not use guilt or emotional pressure.<\/li>\n<li>Do not immediately conclude, \u201cYou don&#8217;t love me.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Do not start hormonal or sexual medicines on your own.<\/li>\n<li>Do not ignore a recurring concern for a long period.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Counselling<\/h2>\n<p>The purpose of counselling for couples is not simply to increase sexual activity. It can also help partners understand each other&#8217;s feelings, expectations, boundaries, communication patterns, and emotional needs.<\/p>\n<p>If one partner is frequently ready while the other frequently is not, it can be helpful for both partners to discuss whether there is ongoing stress, unresolved relationship tension, emotional discomfort, or another factor affecting intimacy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your consultation and your information will be kept completely confidential.<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Real Case Studies<\/h2>\n<h3>Case 1 \u2014 Changes in Desire During Work-Related Stress<\/h3>\n<p>A married person in their 30s noticed that they often did not feel ready for sexual intimacy when their partner wanted to be close. Initially, this created misunderstanding, and the partner began to interpret the situation as personal rejection.<\/p>\n<p>During the assessment, long working hours, irregular sleep, and continuous mental workload were identified as relevant lifestyle factors. Rather than assuming a single cause, attention was given to stress, sleep, and relationship communication.<\/p>\n<p>The couple was encouraged to communicate without pressure. Practical changes were also introduced around sleep, relaxation, and personal time.<\/p>\n<p>Over time, communication became easier and the misunderstanding around intimacy improved.<\/p>\n<p>This case illustrates that changes in sexual desire may sometimes be influenced by lifestyle factors in addition to relationship factors.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Individual response may differ.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Case 2 \u2014 When \u201cNo\u201d Is Interpreted as Rejection<\/h3>\n<p>A couple in their 30s experienced a difference in sexual desire. One partner generally wanted intimacy more often, while the other frequently experienced lower desire. Over time, the partner with higher desire began to feel personally rejected.<\/p>\n<p>During counselling, they discussed the fact that differences in sexual desire can occur between partners. A \u201cno\u201d at a particular moment does not automatically mean rejection of the relationship or the person.<\/p>\n<p>The couple adopted a simple communication pattern: when one partner was not ready, the other avoided pressure, and they discussed their feelings at a more appropriate time.<\/p>\n<p>This helped reduce misunderstandings and made conversations about intimacy more open.<\/p>\n<p>The case highlights why differences in sexual desire can sometimes be better understood through communication and expectations rather than being viewed only as a sexual problem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Individual response may differ.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Case 3 \u2014 The Importance of Assessment in Persistent Concerns<\/h3>\n<p>A person in their 40s had been experiencing reduced sexual desire for an extended period. Initially, it was viewed simply as a \u201cmood problem.\u201d However, a detailed discussion revealed sleep difficulties, persistent fatigue, and other health-related concerns.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of focusing only on increasing libido, the approach included broader health assessment. Appropriate medical evaluation, lifestyle changes, and stress management were considered as part of the overall management approach.<\/p>\n<p>Over time, the person reported improvement in overall wellbeing and relationship communication.<\/p>\n<p>This case shows why persistent or newly developing changes in sexual desire should not be automatically attributed to one cause. Underlying medical and lifestyle factors may also need to be considered.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Individual response may differ.<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>When to Consult<\/h2>\n<p>Consider consulting a Doctor, Sexologist, or appropriate healthcare professional when:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The concern persists or keeps recurring.<\/li>\n<li>It causes significant distress.<\/li>\n<li>It affects the relationship.<\/li>\n<li>There is a sudden major change in libido.<\/li>\n<li>Other sexual-health symptoms are present.<\/li>\n<li>Other medical symptoms occur at the same time.<\/li>\n<li>A change begins after starting a new medication.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If there are sudden severe physical symptoms or an urgent medical concern, appropriate medical consultation should not be delayed.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>\ud83d\udc64 About Dr. Nikul Patel<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Dr. Nikul Patel<\/strong> is a practitioner working in the field of Ayurveda and sexual-health consultation. His approach considers sexual concerns in the context of the individual&#8217;s physical health, mental wellbeing, lifestyle, and relationship. Respectful communication, privacy, and individualized assessment are given importance in sensitive sexual-health consultations.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p>When one partner is ready for intimacy and the other is not, it does not automatically indicate a serious sexual problem. Sexual desire can naturally change according to the person, situation, health, emotions, and relationship circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of responding with pressure, blame, or immediate negative conclusions, couples can focus on consent, communication, mutual respect, and understanding.<\/p>\n<p>If not being in the mood becomes persistent or begins affecting personal wellbeing or the relationship, it may be useful to explore possible physical, psychological, lifestyle, and relationship-related factors with an appropriate professional.<\/p>\n<section class=\"site-faq\" aria-labelledby=\"site-faq-heading\">\n<hr \/>\n<h2 id=\"site-faq-heading\">FAQs<\/h2>\n<details>\n<summary>What should you do when one partner is in the mood and the other is not?<\/summary>\n<p>Respect both partners&#8217; feelings and consent. Instead of applying pressure, communicate calmly and accept the partner&#8217;s decision if they are not comfortable with sexual intimacy at that time.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<details>\n<summary>Does not being in the mood mean that a partner is no longer attracted to you?<\/summary>\n<p>Not necessarily. Stress, fatigue, lack of sleep, emotional factors, medical conditions, and other circumstances can affect sexual desire.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<details>\n<summary>What should you do if your partner is frequently not in the mood?<\/summary>\n<p>If the concern continues or causes distress in the relationship, it may be useful to understand the underlying factors with the help of a Sexologist or appropriate healthcare professional.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<details>\n<summary>Can Ayurvedic treatment help with low sexual desire?<\/summary>\n<p>An Ayurvedic approach may consider Prakriti, Dosha status, lifestyle, and overall health. Any treatment should be selected after an appropriate individual assessment.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<details>\n<summary>Is it normal for partners to have different levels of sexual desire?<\/summary>\n<p>Partners do not necessarily have the same level of sexual desire all the time. Open communication, mutual respect, and healthy boundaries can help couples navigate these differences.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"site-paa\">\n<h3>People Also Ask<\/h3>\n<details>\n<summary>What can cause someone to not be in the mood for sex?<\/summary>\n<p>Stress, fatigue, inadequate sleep, relationship factors, hormonal changes, certain medical conditions, and some medicines may affect sexual desire.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<details>\n<summary>Should you pressure your partner when they are not in the mood?<\/summary>\n<p>No. A partner&#8217;s consent and comfort should be respected. Calm communication is more appropriate than pressure.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n<details>\n<summary>Can stress reduce sexual desire?<\/summary>\n<p>Yes. 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